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Pregnancy Recap – Third Trimester

The third trimester here we go!  The time was flying by.  I couldn’t believe that we were into the third trimester.  Work was starting to pick up and I had a to do list a mile long.  I was starting to feel big and pregnant.  Not to mention having to pee every 45 minutes.  I had definite pressure around me, probably mostly brought on by myself (please note: this is why I wasn’t writing blog posts at this time).

Here are my thoughts and feelings about my third trimester:

Baby Education: I had decided not to take any prenatal classes, instead we took sessions on breastfeeding and emergency care.  I felt that since I had a midwife that the prenatal classes weren’t needed.  That was just my opinion and if you want to take a class please do!  Locally, we have a Momstown group and I went to a few of the Belly Basics nights which I found really helpful.

Feeling the pressure: Up until now we were just going with the flow.  We hadn’t really gotten anything ready at home for the baby.  I was doing a lot of reading so I felt ready in that sense.  Dan was given Be Prepared for Christmas and had yet to read it.  “I have lots of time for that” is what I was told.  I was feeling ready for the baby in my head but no where else.  Work had just started looking for my replacement, the room wasn’t started, my shower wasn’t going to be until I was 36 weeks so we had nothing in the house, etc.  I’m feeling panicked just writing about it!  I just kept on telling myself there was lots of time.  As for work, not my problem about finding my replacement.  I just needed to get as much done as possible so I made a to do list.  We worked on the room and got it pretty much done by week 34 (although it really didn’t have anything in it other then a few things we had already been given).  Getting the room done was hard for me because I’m the type of person that just does stuff.  Being this pregnant really slowed me down.  I needed help!  One night, I was so annoyed that I couldn’t move a dresses by myself that I just sat on the floor (in the baby room) and cried.  Dan was super busy with work and not at home at the time so I had no one to ask for help (which I really hate doing anyway).  I was crying because; 1) I knew I had to get over this not asking for help thing; 2) I was having a baby in a few weeks; 3) I really just wanted ice cream instead working on baby’s room; 4) I probably had to pee for the hundredth time that day and 5) I felt like I was the size of a house.  I picked myself up and did what I could.  The next day Dan moved the dresser.  It was all good.  Please note, that it’s totally ok to cry at the stupidest stuff in your third trimester/whole pregnancy/when ever you feel like it after the baby is born.

Body Image: Still feeling good about what I looked like!  My belly was nice and round and I still had my curves.  I was gaining about one pound a week at this point.

Hip Pain:  In week 26 I started getting really bad hip pain.  I’m not sure if it was because I sit at a desk all day or what.  Nothing was working to help it. I started to see an RMT and that would help temporarily.  This was going to be something that I was just going to have to deal with. Some days where better then others.

Fatigue: I had to pee all the time and at night it was way worse.  Our only bathroom is on the main floors with our bedroom upstairs it was an effort to go in the middle of the night.  I got to the point when I would have to go two maybe three times a night…not fun.  I just thought it was my body getting me ready for getting up two or three times a night to do a feeding.  The fatigue mostly hit me around 3pm.  If only it was ok to go have a nap at work!!  I would just fight through it and I would try go to bed in good time.  Not much else a person can do about fatigue other then just deal with it.  I think that’s what I did, the people around me at the time may have a different option.  The good news for me is this my blog and they don’t have a say!!  Haha!


Getting around: I definitely slowed down at this stage and for me this was very hard.  It was frustrating that I couldn’t do simple things any more.  In the end it was a good learning experience.

Overall: I was still feeling pretty positive about the whole experience.  Yes, it had its moments and I knew it would.  It was just a little shocking when my third trimester was cut short by 4 weeks and 6 days.  On April 21, my water broke and it was one of the scariest moment of my life.

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Pregnancy Recap – Second Trimester

Aww!  The Second Trimester!  WE MADE IT!  I was so happy to be done with the first trimester.  Not because of feeling like crap or anything just that it was out in the open!  I was feeling good, my belly was getting to be a nice size and midwife appointments were going great!

In week 20 we found out that it was a boy!  Super excited about this because it was the first boy in my family.  Growing up when ever I thought about my family I only ever saw myself with boys.  So I was super pumped about having a little guy!

Here are my thoughts on my second trimester:

Feeling hungover even though I was anything but: Late into my first trimester, I started to feel hungover if I didn’t get enough sleep.  This wasn’t all that fair because I did nothing to feel that way.  So on weekends, I still treated it the same way – tried to sleep a lot, eat junk food and watch TV all day.  As for going to work feeling this way, it was annoying.  I just over did it on the water (or tried too) than by 2 I would feel more normal.  The feeling pretty much stuck around for the rest of my pregnancy.  It just became the norm in my third trimester.  The good news as that my headaches were gone probably because the rest of my body felt like crap!

Feeling the Baby: At first I couldn’t tell if it was the baby or just gas.  Then by week 22 I was feeling him.  When Dan was around I would always try to get him to feel the kicking but that didn’t really happen until week 30.  He was very active at night – the baby not Dan.  I use to joke that he was having a party at 3am because that’s what it felt like.  It was my favourite thing about being pregnant.  I loved touching my belly, connecting with the little man and trying to guess where he was in there.

Self Esteem & Body Image: Oh I was loving my body!  I would wear tight clothes to show off my belly all the time.  I loved it!  I have worked very hard over the years to really and truly love my pear shaped body.  Nothing like being pregnant to feel amazing about yourself!  Haha!  My self esteem was at the highest it had ever been.  To this day it’s still pretty high, I did grow a baby in my belly after all!

Maternity Clothes: I have been trying to add colour and texture to my wardrobe for a few years now and my mat clothes were no different.  I kept it pretty simple and had a few key pieces.  I added things like scarves for the colour and texture.  H&M was my favour place for clothes!  Did you know that they carry maternity ware?  For my birthday, myself and a good friend of mine, went shopping in the states (my birthday is November 29th… so it was black Friday! so good sales on that weekend).  I spent $150 and got three pairs of pants (two of them jeans), three t-shirts and a sweater.  It was great!  My local store doesn’t carry mat clothes but one did near my head office in a different city.  Therefore any time I had meetings I would drop by the store on my way home.  In addition to the H&M clothes, I would always check out Target and Old Navy.  I made a killing at Old Navy after the holidays!  I got sweaters for $12.99!  I clearly need to do a post of my wardrobe.  Haha!  My point here is that mat clothes don’t have to be tents any more!

Getting a Midwife: My sister-in-law had a midwife and her experience was great so that’s what I wanted as well!  I called I soon as I found out and was wait listed.  Lucky for me, my GP was going to look after me until I got in.  Well it took 8 weeks and I was just starting into my second trimester.  Either way, I was able to get the same midwife that delivered my niece and nephew!  Yeah!  So that was exciting.

Travelling: I never thought of myself as a traveller but I think I could be classified as one now.  In two years I’ve been to five countries and to BC twice.  In my 27th week, I was going to be flying to BC again.  I was feeling good and all I wanted was a isle seat which I got!  I just made sure to have lots of food with me and ask for water a lot.  I didn’t take one of those little cups of water the airlines give out – I would ask the stewardess to fill my big bottle and each time they did!

Sleeping: The first trimester was great because of being so tried all the time.  However, in my second trimester if I didn’t get enough sleep I would feel hungover (see above).  A friend recommended this pillow.  I’m so happy she did!  It was like heaven.  I loved my pillow, I brought it everywhere with me and cried when I forgot it at a hotel.  Please note that it’s perfectly normal to cry at forgetting your pillow at a hotel.  Just don’t do what I did and call your husband crying on the side of a highway because of a forgotten pillow.  It will just make them think that you are totally nuts or just more nuts in my case!


Overall:  Feeling pretty good!  Feeling the baby!  Trying to stay positive.  Outside of work, I took advantage of this time with going shopping, visiting friends and watching TV.  Since I didn’t know what life would be like once baby arrived!

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Pregnancy Recap – First Trimester

You know that feeling the day before you get a cold?  You know what I’m talking about – the feeling that you get knowing you are about to come down with something.  Well, this is what the first trimester felt like to me!  I was one of the lucky ones, I never had morning sickness!  My sister did for her whole pregnancy and I was so worried that I would be the same but nope.  I’m so happy to report that I never got sick!  YEAH!  I’m mean never ever sick – not a cold, flu or a sniffle.  I believe that I was one of the lucky ones.

Here are some of the things that I went through and how I dealt with them or tried too:

My Philosophy: Try not to complain and stay positive.  I wanted my pregnancy to be a positive thing and early on I decided this.  It was important to me to feel good and being positive was just part of that.  I was embarking on this amazing thing and I should enjoy it!  To this day, I can still look back and feel good about the whole process.  So I did my best to not complain and stay positive!!  To this day, I try to be this way too.

Keeping the Secret at Social Events: This was the hardest part for me.  Of course, we told family but that was pretty much it.  We went to work events, a wedding with college friend and Oktoberfest early on.  You know how hard it is to pretended to drink!  At the wedding, after some dancing, I came back to the table and took a big old swig of what I thought was my “drink”.  Yeah not mine, it was my friends double vodka soda.  Then at Oktoberfest they give the DD these lovely blue cups so everyone knows you aren’t drinking.  The workers didn’t understand that I didn’t want it.  Where we live Oktoberfest is a big deal and we were at the main hall, we were going to run into someone!  Needless to say, I didn’t use the blue cup which was a smart move because we saw lots of people we knew!  At these events, I was able to get away with looking like I was drinking by having club soda.  Sometimes I would have to ask for it to be put into a different glass so that I would blend in.  The bartenders always understood why and were always great!  Also because of all this club soda drinking, I LOVE the stuff now!  I call it “Pregers Beer” now.

Food Issues: Again, I was lucky here.  The only thing I wasn’t really into was coffee and water.  Other then those all food was fair game!  I ended up getting over the coffee thing by about week 10.  As for water, I just felt like I couldn’t get enough.  I still have this problem so I’m expecting for it to never go away now.  The only issues I had with food was that I would eat and eat and eat and not really ever feel full.  This was shocking to me because I have basically lived my life on a diet.  I was more then happy to finally get to eat!  I did stay really focused on making sure that I didn’t eat the same stuff all the time and got a good mix of food.

Digestion and Indigestion: Yeah, no one really ever talks about this one.  Those darn prenatal vitamins, they back you up!  This is probably TMI but I don’t care, people need to know!  I already felt like I was going to get a cold any day and then I started having bathroom issues.  Not a good mix!  Prunes were my answer.  I would have a few each night and I was good in the morning.  Only in the first trimester did I get some indigestion.  I think it was more in my head because it wasn’t ever all that bad.

Exhaustion: I normally go to bed at 11.  Then as soon as I found out I was pregnant, I was falling asleep at 7:30 pm.  Like passed out nothing is going to wake you kind of sleep.  It was crazy!  The problem with that was I felt that nothing was getting done – house stuff and trip planning (the Spain trip took place when I was 16 weeks along).  Once the second trimester came along this went away but came back in the third mostly because I wasn’t getting a lot of sleep at night from going to be the bathroom all the time.  This was just something that I was going to have to fight and I won in week 10 when I started having coffee again.

Body Image: I have worked hard over the last five years to finally love my body!  I was super excited to see what she was going to do for me and this baby.  I tried to workout but I stopped because it made me fell sick.  Instead, I just focused on what I was eating and feeling good about my choices.  The only major thing that happened to my body in the first trimester was my boobs were a little tender and got real big!  Before getting pregers, I worked very hard and lost 20lbs.  Then by week 8, I was back into my old-20lbs-heavier bras.  I had only put on 5lbs but they were just that big!

Headaches: I use to suffer from migraines as a teen.  When I was 19, I had jaw surgery and that seem to kick them in the butt.  Well, 12 years later they turned there ugly little head.  I was starting to get them again and functioning at work was starting to be difficult.  I can’t remember if I had read this or someone told me but we got a humidifier.  I put that thing right by my head at night and like magic migraines were gone.  I also was really pushing myself to drink more water but this was very hard.  Lemon tea was my saving grace.

Anxiety: This is a hard one because it never goes away nor do you want to talk about.  So we didn’t.  I focused only on good things.  However, losing the baby was always in the back of my head.  We live a pretty busy life so I never let these negative thoughts in.  Just know that they were there.  That is all.

Telling the families:  I came up with this one all on my own!  We emailed out these pictures to our families.  From the comments, it took a few minutes to get it but in the end everyone loved it!

Dan’s Side of the Family

My Side of the Family

Overall: I was so happy to get through the first trimester!  Being positive was my focus because at the end of the day I was doing what I was put on this earth to do!  I was growing a baby and it was going to be a pretty awesome experience.